Today we’d like to introduce you to Oluwatoyin Ajogbeje.
Oluwatoyin, we appreciate you taking the time to share your story with us today. Where does your story begin?
Adullam Counseling and Trauma Care grew out of both lived experience and a deep sense of calling. My journey into trauma work began years ago while volunteering at an orphanage in Nigeria. That experience was my first real exposure to the effects of trauma, especially in children navigating loss and instability. It stayed with me and shaped the direction of my life in ways I did not fully understand at the time.
After moving to the United States, I continued volunteering, this time in a women’s shelter where I was trained in domestic violence and rape crisis response. Being in those spaces, hearing people’s stories, and witnessing both pain and resilience further deepened my commitment to this work. It was through these experiences that I felt led to pursue a master’s degree in social work.
During my final year of school, I completed a year-long trauma fellowship that became a turning point in my career. One idea from that training continues to guide my work today: learning to see clients through a trauma-informed lens by asking, ‘What happened to you?’ instead of ‘What is wrong with you?’ That shift in perspective changed everything. It reinforced my belief that people’s behaviors and struggles often make sense when their stories are fully understood.
Before founding Adullam, much of my clinical work has focused on supporting individuals and couples navigating trauma. The name ‘Adullam’ is deeply meaningful to me. It comes from the Biblical story of David, where people who were distressed and overwhelmed found refuge with David in the Cave of Adullam. What stands out to me is that it was not just a place of hiding, but a place of transformation.
That is the heart behind Adullam Counseling and Trauma Care. It is meant to be a space where people can come as they are, find safety, and begin the process of healing. It represents refuge, renewal, and growth. At the same time, it is not intended to be a place where people remain stuck. My hope is that it becomes a space where individuals can pause, heal, and then move forward with clarity toward their purpose and what matters most to them.
I have been working with children and families in various capacities since 2008, and it continues to be an honor to walk alongside people in their healing journeys. Watching individuals reconnect with themselves, rebuild, and move toward wholeness is what keeps me passionate about this work.
Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
Of course, the journey has not been easy. Starting something new, especially in a new area, came with its own set of challenges and a steep learning curve. There have been moments of uncertainty, growth, and stretching, both personally and professionally.
At the same time, I have encountered incredible people along the way who have shown genuine support. That has meant more to me than I can fully express. I am deeply grateful to everyone who has been part of my journey.
I am especially grateful for my husband, who has been my biggest cheerleader throughout this process. Having a strong support system has made all the difference. Every new journey comes with its own challenges, but I continue to move forward with gratitude for the people who have supported and encouraged me along the way.
It has not been a completely smooth road. Building a practice, especially in a new area, came with both expected and unexpected challenges. From establishing a presence in the community to growing a client base and navigating the operational side of maintaining a private practice, there has been a significant learning curve.
That said, those challenges have been instrumental in my growth. They have pushed me to become more intentional, adaptable, and grounded in my vision for Adullam Counseling and Trauma Care. Each step has helped strengthen not only my clinical skills, but also my ability to effectively manage a practice.
Appreciate you sharing that. What else should we know about what you do?
I’m a License Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), and my work is centered on helping individuals and couples navigate some of the most challenging and meaningful seasons of their lives. I specialize in trauma and related concerns, including PTSD, anxiety, depression, grief, and ADHD, as well as supporting clients through life transitions, parenting challenges, and recovery from sexual abuse. I work with both teens and adults, and I’m known for creating a space where people feel safe, understood, and able to do deeper, meaningful work.
With couples, I focus on helping partners rebuild connection, especially when they’re dealing with communication issues, emotional disconnection, trauma, or the aftermath of infidelity and betrayal. I also work with couples navigating the impact of mental health challenges, helping them move toward healthier patterns and stronger relationships.
I use an integrative, evidence-based approach, including EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), CBT, Trauma-Focused CBT, the Gottman Method, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. I tailor the work to each client, rather than taking a one-size-fits-all approach, which allows for more lasting and meaningful change. I also offer Christian faith-integrated therapy for clients who want to incorporate their faith into the healing process.
What I’m most proud of is the growth I’ve experienced, not just clinically, but in building the practice and becoming a more effective and intentional clinician.
What sets me apart is the way I integrate deep trauma work with a relational focus. I’m not just addressing symptoms—I’m helping clients understand themselves, process underlying experiences, and create real, lasting change in how they show up in their lives and relationships.
What matters most to you?
What matters most to me is serving my clients with honor, respect, and high-quality, professional care. I am committed to treating every individual with dignity and value, regardless of who they are or their status or position. Having been on the other side myself, I understand what it feels like, and that perspective continues to guide how I show up in my work. It’s also important to me to make care as accessible and affordable as possible for the individuals and families I serve.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.adullamcounseling.com/
