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Conversations with Kim Derrick

Today we’d like to introduce you to Kim Derrick.

Kim Derrick

Hi Kim, we appreciate you taking the time to share your story with us today. Where does your story begin?
I have been a nurse for 12 years and have worked in hospice care for the majority of that time. I noticed a great need immediately where the people who were terminally ill either had no place to live or no one to care for them. For years, I watched people get discharged from hospitals into extremely despairing living situations or observed them having to pass away in the sterile environment of the hospital, alone.

I was catching up with a friend at a ball game in the spring of 2021 and he knew I worked in hospice and was asking me about my experiences. He and his wife had cared for loved ones in their home in the past. He was taken aback when I shared the reality of so many individuals who had no one to care for them at the end of their life. I had said something to the effect of how it would be so nice to be able to have a house to care for such people. He was also a philanthropist and told me to start researching how to go about starting such a house.

So, I did, and here we are. The Heart of Mary House is the first home started by Catholic Comfort Cares Homes, a local non-profit that I started in September of 2022. Our homes of are for the dying poor in our community. We house and provide 24/7 care at zero cost to the resident or their family. We do not bill insurance, nor do we accept any government funding. We are 100% donation based and rely on the generosity of volunteers to supplement the round-the-clock care that we provide.

We care for 2 to 3 residents at a time in our home and provide their food and laundry needs. We meet them where they are in what is usually a broken past and a wounded soul, and we care for their body, mind, and soul, for them to know they are loved and cared for during this vulnerable time in their life. Each day, I am greatly inspired by the love and compassion of our volunteers and being able to see the love and mercy of God in all of His children on this earth. The ripple effect of caring for one person is overwhelming, but each one is worthy of dignified care at the end of their life.

So much happens in our little 900 sq ft basement home on Thompson Lane, but the greatest thing we do is be the hands and feet of Christ as we serve our brothers and sisters. I thank God every day for choosing me to begin this work and I thank Him even more for all those people He has put in my path to clear the way, to hold me up, to cheer me on, and give me grace, but nothing is done without Him!

I am powerless without Him! It is all for His great glory and a true effort to Make Heaven Crowded!

Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall, and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
Once I was intentional about the desire that came into my heart, the Holy Spirit took hold of the entire thing. Most everything has been laid out on a golden platter, but that doesn’t mean that it was all necessarily easy. Many things took a great deal of patience and I had to surrender to God’s will and back away from what I wanted to do. These times ended up being incredibly fruitful.

The Lord has provided many things long before I ever even realized that I needed them. But Grace abounds for all of us, and through God’s love and mercy, we essentially learned as we went. We were fortunate to be under the guidance of the Omega Home Network out of Oklahoma. They have been a tremendous way for us to network and be mentored by other houses across the country similarly serving their community.

Thanks for sharing that. So, maybe next you can tell us a bit more about your work?
I went to Aquinas College when I was 30 years old. I had been married for 10 years and had 5 children. I had never been to college and my goal was to become a nurse. Up until that point, I had worked side jobs babysitting kids from my home or waiting tables. I had resigned to the thought that if I was going to work outside of my home it had to be worthwhile and be some type of service-oriented work.

Nursing, specifically hospice nursing, struck me the most, but becoming a nurse seemed like an impossible feat. I was never a good student and I knew that this would take an act of God to complete. After two semesters in, I was expecting our sixth baby. I thought for sure this would sideline the hope of becoming a nurse. I surrendered my fear to God and He strengthened me and those around me who were supporting me.

I told myself I would take it one semester at a time, and I would discern His will at the end of each semester on whether or not I would continue. I also remained committed to keeping my life properly ordered; I maintained a relationship with God, then my husband, then my children, then my family and friends, and then my school work. I knew I could not get things off balance, or I would become disordered and the plans God had for me would begin to unravel. I returned when Baby #6 was 9 months old and earned my associate in nursing two years later, 7 months pregnant with #7. I took my state boards 2 days before he was born!

Once I began to work as a nurse, I kept the same mindset of living an ordered life. Within 3 months, I was working in hospice, and other than working from home for a few years in the legal nursing field, I maintained a steady career as a hospice nurse. I have worked in admission, case management, on-call nights/weekends, sales, administration, and clinical liaison.

What are your plans for the future?
After founding the Heart of Mary House, I hope that God keeps me there and allows me to open up several other homes under our non-profit, Catholic Comfort Care Homes.

It is exciting to see all the directions He is taking this little desire from the heart.

Contact Info:

  • Facebook: Heart of Mary Hospice House

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