Today we’d like to introduce you to Brittania Williams.
Hi Brittania, so excited to have you on the platform. So before we get into questions about your work life, maybe you can bring our readers up to speed on your story and how you got to where you are today.
I was 3 years old when I started Singing at School with a friend of mine. I spent more time tuning and cultivating his voice than my own so he could be famous and pull me up when the time was right. I spent years waiting, but it never happened. So within the last 4 years, I have been experiencing extreme trauma and difficulties so I tried to go into a studio. I was tricked into an abusive situation that almost cost me my life by Grenade. It took me 3 years to finally feel comfortable enough to go back into a studio. I started a nonprofit to help coordinate events for other local performers and musicians. I have been seeking seed money for the last few years. I just started going back into music. My first hit song is going to be Move Away. I’ve been working on it with Colin. I can’t wait for the world to hear to final version I was itching to release so I leaked my own song but I have a few more too that I’m working on.
I’m very shy, I don’t really like large crowds they make me nervous and I’m super insecure about my body I always wear clothes that are bigger than I actually am. I just started becoming more confident within the last few years. I had very abusive relationships in the past and was even held hostage for 8 years by a man who would verbally abuse me, and refused to leave my apartment. Things I want to work on are learning how to speak out. My first relationship was my most abusive relationship, I don’t want to go back into abusive situations, it seems that’s the only type of man I attract. The culture of abuse towards women is changing, everyone is getting more aggressive. I’m unsure how we’re going to Quell all this aggression women now have toward men but many of us are going into relationships expecting love and equality while being abused. I am hoping that that situation changes soon.
I am learning the dynamics of the music industry and have to navigate it alone. I’m a firm believer in self-expression and being yourself. I don’t believe in conforming to societal standards I believe we’re all brought into this world with our individual uniqueness that should be explored. Genetically I was bred originally by the Caucasian people in Ireland turn Timoll Indians, I’m not going to pretend there isn’t a Caucasian side to me. I love tuning into my inner white girl sometimes that’s where I feel the freest. I just like exploring my talents and producing as much as I can. When I leave this world I won’t be able to take any of my luxuries with me. The only thing you’ll have left are the stories people tell about you, and people aren’t very honest nowadays. I have people that have known me for years making up lies about me to cover up their own guilt. I just pray it all comes out eventually that would be a miserable Rest. I am happy to say I live my life with absolutely No Regrets. I’ve loved and have been loved. Not particularly in the way I can appreciate but it exists in fractional shared. My greatest accomplishment thus far is my Son. Nothing beats being a mom, which they’ve robbed me of here in Boston due to other people’s lies. Again I wish people would stop making up stuff and attaching me to it. This type of stuff is why Actors, singers, actresses, and normal people kill themselves.
I’m just asking for us to be better as a society.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
It has been absolutely horrendous. The first studio I went to was a home studio. I was Assaulted and my life was threatened. The producer fell in love with the music I was making for my first love and took it personally. It really turned me off from music and made me not want to claim my name. My first love gave me the name when we were kids. As I said I cultivated and cared more for the success of his career than mine. I kept our drama from childhood out of the spotlight.
I worked for only top companies in Boston before coming to the Commonwealth of Mass my private sector Jobs were highly rated. I come super recommended. I would recommend women use professionals from the internet. Studios are so expensive we’re paying an arm and a leg before you even make a hit song. There’s no guarantee you’ll even like the song you make in that one session. It’s honestly Highway Robbery but it will hopefully be worth it in the end.
My husband started sabotaging me by hospitalizing me repetitively for no good reason. He’s the only man I’ve ever trusted. He broke my trust tremendously. I’m an Aquarius I don’t even think trust was a part of our genetic makeup. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to trust a man again that’s just my god’s honest truth. The police have not stopped hospitalizing me, my mom thinks it’s because of the weed. She hospitalized me for smoking weed a few times. My mother is extremely jealous of all the admiration that people have for me she tried to destroy my reputation, and she also resents the fact that I raised her sons for her. I also paid her mortgage and covered everything in the house. Her guilt got the best of her. I’m like that “perfect” child that everyone hates because they don’t know my story. Thank you for this opportunity to share my views.
I was bullied for loving one man, I don’t want to ever experience this again. Think that’s what makes my love life so complex. My book Chronicles of Chiney B discusses some of my childhood trauma. The pain that forced my personality inwards. Naturally I’m a shy person. I spent the better half of my life falling in love with a childhood friend named Eric, he was my love for so many years. We had a long distance relationship. He’s beautiful, we finally met in 2020 but I was going through so much and still traumatized from something that was taking place in Boston. We didn’t get to embrace each other the way we should have. My loss I guess. I think boston had approved of our situation they names one of my favorite restaurants Nashville. Im glad we were able to open that channel. My problem is I’m always trying to make plans for people who have no plans for me. He was a best friend to me, we’re not as close as we used to be. Hope one day we can get back to daily chats. I’m ready to come out and be myself now, I’ve never dated before I’d like to try that. I hear it’s fun. I’m also looking to get into Comedy, maybe you guys can help me book a show at laugh Boston or better, the Wilbur theater. I hope whoever I end up with accepts me for who I am, inside and Out.
Can you tell our readers more about what you do and what you think sets you apart from others?
I started a Non-Profit after becoming a spoken word artist in hopes to connect other artists together and plan events.
I started a catering business with my cousin called Cheffingz Catering I’ve catered for Massive Media and local friends. One event that I’m extremely proud that I got to be a part of was Serenity Urban Retreat. It was an amazing opportunity. I would hope to cultivate a similar atmosphere but more diverse.
I planned my own wedding which I was told was the wedding of the decade. I’m just into perfection. You can’t fake love but I did want him to be my child’s father I’ve known him since I was 6.
Game nights are Epic for me, my family and I always have little festivities, some for just friends.
I am the event planner in my family. Often planning events and trips. My family events have been messed up for something like 4 years.
Alright so before we go can you talk to us a bit about how people can work with you, collaborate with you or support you?
I would love to build a team of supporters so that I can get more events sponsored. Once all the Sabotage is over from black folks. The crab-in-a-barrel mentality is real.
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